Remember important dates; vacation
days, midterms, finals, registration
dates, tuition payment deadlines,
and special events. Yes, your student
is an adult now and is responsible
for remembering this information,
but they’ll always need and
appreciate your help.
Become familiar with the college
and the resources available to the
students, this will help in supportingyour
child. (i.e. Tutoring services, career
services, campus services, student
life, etc).
If they don’t call you every
day, it’s ok! Student life on
campus is very busy. Hopefully your
son or daughter will be busy keeping
up with classes and getting involved
on campus. It’s ok to call,
but set up a schedule to talk maybe
once a week or every other week. This
will go a long way in instilling independence
as well as responsible behavior.
It will be hard to decide when to
intervene and when to let your child
figure things out for themselves.
Your child may just need an opportunity
to vent and you’ll serve them
well by offering advice, but letting
them handle the challenges themselves.